honestly the most annoying thing about this website is that unless you write out every single detail about your personal life everyone just likes to assume that u live a happy, pleasant, worry-free life without struggling with anything that could possibly hold you back and it’s like??? i’m not about to list everything about my mental health in extensive detail or provide y’all with medical history but it costs zero dollars to mind your own business and not assume someone’s a-okay just because it’s not listed in their fucking tumblr description
Someone told me I didn’t have cancer cause I didn’t post about it enough
electric violet – what’s something odd, extravagant, or thrilling that your f/o like to do sometimes?
Does being part of a detective agency and solving murder and crime and dealing with the supernatural literally all the time not count as odd, extravagant, or at least thrilling? Wow, what a world we’ve come to! That’s normal here in Yokohama I guess XD I suppose we like to rummage around in the laundry room looking for spare coins every now and then, and compete to see who’s found the most money by the end. Is that more like what you meant? ;w;
black – how do you and your f/o comfort each other during rough
times? Dazai used to do his very best not to admit when he wasn’t
feeling all that hot, but ever since he got better at stating his
feelings (at least to me), some days when the depression’s hitting him
really hard he just holds me close in bed as soon as I wake up and
whispers that it’s just going to be one of those days, I call the Agency
and let them know we won’t be coming to work today – they’re awfully
kinder about letting Dazai off the hook when he’s not pretending he’s
just wasting time and let’s me tell them honestly what’s happening, even
if I don’t tell them everything. After that, I go back to bed so he can
sleep a little more… If he has nothing but nightmares then I do my
best to make sure he takes care of himself – I feed him and clean him
and listen to him if he wants to talk and distract him if he doesn’t
want to talk. He likes to just lay his head in my lap as I comb my
fingers through his hair… If it’s just work stress or mafia stress
getting to him though it’s usually best to distract him with lots of
kisses!
As for me… When I’m having one of those
anxiety days he finds it necessary to hover around me at all times. He
makes me eat even if it’s just a little, takes me into a quiet place so I
can cry without anyone seeing me, and goes out of his way to remind me
that I’m loved and cared for. I don’t really like being alone when I’m like that, so the first thing he does is shuffle me to the Agency (even if he doesn’t actually let me do any work.) Just being around the other members tends to boost my mood, and Dazai makes absolutely sure that everyone gives me the proper amount of attention… I won’t ever ask for that when I’m feeling down because I don’t want to be a burden, but nothing stops Dazai from giving me what I need ;w; And of course as soon as work gets out and we have to go home again, Dazai puts on cartoons into the DVD player immediately – he never asks which because he knows what I like.
dim gray – what do you two wear to formal events? what kinds of formal events do you go to together? Dazai
loves taking me on all the fancy dinner dates then having fun making
fools of ourselves in front of everyone by burping, talking and laughing
too loud, or just straight up clambering onto the table and dancing
together. In addition to the dinner dates, we’ve snuck into many the
mafia party! :’) That’s the kind of formal events we go together, I suppose – there was that one Cinderella ball but ah, that’s a long story! What we wear
to formal events is… It varies more for me than it does for Dazai,
all honesty. We both have yukatas, but those are more for festivals of
course. Other than the yukata, Dazai really only has two suits – a black
one and a white one, and though he has plenty of ties he really does
prefer the bolo with the blue gem! As for me… After attending a lot of
Agency parties by shuffling around two major outfit combinations around
constantly, Dazai vowed to buy me a new dress for every occasion he
could think of, and then some – while that’s awfully sweet and I’m so
happy to have all these lovely pink dresses (and one nice pink tux), I’m
seriously running out of closet space! Help!
french blue – after you two have gone stable, what kinds of dates do you go on?
Whatever we like, honestly! Anything and everything is fair game. Dates
can be as simple as cuddling in the downstairs cafe or taking a trip
all the way to Yokohama harbor and going for a ride in the Ferris wheel.
The only thing dates with Dazai have in common is that they’re all
spontaneous, spur of the moment – one minute Dazai is lying down on the
couch and the next thing I know he’s taken my hand and dragged me out
the door, babbling about buying me a delicious crepe between something
about the perfect day for a walk on the beach!
canary yellow – what are the silliest nicknames you and your f/o use for each other? Oh,
you know, normal stuff! Stuff like “marshmallow angel sparkly princess
poo“ and “sexy bandage detective man,“ “little bubble butt mermaid“ and
“mister tall dark chocolate factory!“ Though I suppose calling each
other “Barbie“ and “Ken“ qualifies as just as silly, too. And let’s not
forget Dazai’s personal favorite – “my daily dose of Sara-tonin!“
dazaaaai 